#BE YOURSELF
"To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment". These are the well-spoken words of Ralph Waldo Emerson.
Everyone(our friends, relatives or the so-called society) always tells us that "JUST BE YOURSELF". But, when we try to be ourselves or do something out of the league, the first one to stop us from that will be our relatives and friends, who call themselves our "well-wishers".I ask, that what kind of good wishes are they, instead of supporting and encouraging us they all try to demotivate us by laughing or saying that'you can't do it'.Guys just tell me, who are they to tell us that, we can do it or not.They have no right to take decisions of our life.Just For example,if you say that u want to be a model or an actor or an athlete they say you can't do it. Arrey why can't we do it,it's our life,it's totally our decision.We know our inner capabilities better, not they.So stop listening to them and have a faith in you....just be yourself.
Everyone(our friends, relatives or the so-called society) always tells us that "JUST BE YOURSELF". But, when we try to be ourselves or do something out of the league, the first one to stop us from that will be our relatives and friends, who call themselves our "well-wishers".I ask, that what kind of good wishes are they, instead of supporting and encouraging us they all try to demotivate us by laughing or saying that'you can't do it'.Guys just tell me, who are they to tell us that, we can do it or not.They have no right to take decisions of our life.Just For example,if you say that u want to be a model or an actor or an athlete they say you can't do it. Arrey why can't we do it,it's our life,it's totally our decision.We know our inner capabilities better, not they.So stop listening to them and have a faith in you....just be yourself.
All of you might be, at least once have been mocked at by your friends,because of the way you walk,the way you dress or because of a mark on your face ,or the worst of all your choices.
I want to share one of my experiences here,two years back.....one of my friend made fun of the way i look ,that statement brought down my self confidence to such a low level that i started spending hours in front of the mirror . But,one day something clicked in my mind that made me question to myself .....that why do i need to look like others to be accepted by them.Won't the world be a boring place if everyone looked and acted the same way.I wasted a year trying to copy others.Altogether forgetting about my own identity ,all these things that happened with me had a great impact on me.I realized that some where deep in my heart i had a thought that i don't look pretty like other girls.She some how found that weakness of mine and started to demotivate me.Realizing,all my mistakes, i have now started to discover myself .I have started to take out some me time.I believe that now i m much happier than before,i am more confident and i believe very soon that time will come when i will be able to say that"main khud ki favorite hoon".
AT last i would like to say that start visualizing yourself ,how you want to be.No one in this world has the right to change you or comment on you or make fun of the decisions that you have made for your life .Be strong,be confident and most importantly love yourself .It's high time now come out in open, take your stand ,fight for yourself.Don't shut yourself in a room of others opinion.There is no need to sacrifice your identity for others.Always remember that, you are not a copy ,you are original........
SO,
BE YOURSELF & BELIEVE IN YOURSELF
3 comments:
@amazingly_beautiful, I am proud of the person you have become. Don't stop here. Keep growing as person and ,always,because there is so much you can be.
Beautiful piece of writing,just keep doing great things .You have turned into someone I never expected and u can be so much more.
Very encouraging and beautifully written....
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